I have lumps and lymph nodes swollen, feel tired and other symptoms, please advise?

First is dizziness and nausea with occasional balance issues. Worse when lying down and moving head different directions. Blurry vision getting worse. Severe fatigue and weaknesses throughout body. Shortness of breath when bending over. Not sleeping well. Also very concerned about lymph nodes being swollen. Especially in my groin on both sides. Never had this happen before. They are swollen and tenderness to touch. Also painful at times like when I move my legs a certain way. They have been this way for at least 4 weeks. Haven’t went away at all, just seem to be getting worse.Lastly, I have lumps appearing all over my body. Some I’ve had for years but a lot of new ones are popping up everywhere. Some are growing, some are painful when touched or when I move. I recently found a lump in my right breast. I’m in a lot of pain all over my body. I feel so tired and hurt and feel weak almost everyday. My hands and legs go numb. I can’t find a doctor who will listen to me. One other thing, sometimes I have urinary retention problems. Its hard to urinate and empty bladder completely. Most of these things I have been complaining about for the past 4 years. Everything is getting worse. I don’t know what to do.

Age: 47
General Information: Hypertension, diabetes, high cholesterol and triglycerides, vitamin D deficiency, thyroid nodules( right and left sides)seen endo and surgeon about the nodules. Both have differing opinions about what should be done.